Oflate, i have started realising that some things happen for good. And i have started accepting things as they come-up.
I laugh at my cribbings and feel small to have cursed the almighty for not having granted me what i wanted. But now i realise, he had something better than that i had asked for!
This realisation now makes me accept what happens in my life. When friends ditch me, ignore me and what not..when people leave me alone, i understand that i have my own life, its time for me to stay alone, think calmly and think about myself and my needs for sometime!
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well...some people shut the doors at the first chance and some put up with everything until the last possible moment...neither is wrong and i guess i belong to the latter...
Ram - Friendship, luv and affection cannot be earned with any complusion or with any amount of efforts. It should come naturally.
As said by you once earlier, I luv my friends, and show my care and concern without expecting anything in return. Their attitude towards me would in no way affect my luv for them.
If I might ask, what is it that suddenly triggered this philosophical side of yours?
On "When friends ditch me", either they are not friends or they did not ditch. Both can't be together.
Whatever may be the reason but i am happy you realize all happens for a reason :) Good going
Thanks Aks!
And Ram, yaeh u may be partly true, thats what i think, there never considered me as their friend, for them to ditch me.
hey ! :-) .. ya i do blog.. but not as frequent as you do ..
hey i always remem this when someone talks abt prayers ..
God answers prayers in three ways ..
He says yes and give you what you want ..
He says no and gives you better ..
He says Wait .. and gives you the best ever :-)
so the No means you get something better :-)
:-) Arvind, hoping for the best!
I kinda identify with ur initial thoughts, heidi ... However, about the friends ditching thing... may not be true entirely, nor always .. the best of friends DO stnd by u thru times good and bad ...
My pleasure... i've bookmarked ur page and will continue reading/posting comments ... ur blogs seem to have a certain senti touch to them by the way ..
Hey Sri.....Whenever I have feelings similar to yours , I used to say to myself "Oh c'mon, mayb u r destined for somthing better in life"....I do get very much affected if the frnd thing happens..I used to cry at times...but again this comes to my mind "Those who make you cry, don't deserve your tears; n those who deserve it, don't make you cry"..
Isn't it true :)
At time it is sind :-)
Looks like a saamiyaar in the making..
Sri..I loved ur title...romba inspiring aa irundhathu..thanks pa
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