Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna

A beautiful story on relationships. Being amidst a bunch of friends of whom 90% are committed, and the status of marriage of few close relatives has made a major impact on my perception on relationships. Having lost faith in the institution called marriage and worst the arrange marriage, has made me a supporter of Love marriage (if at all u need to get married).

There should be no compromise on Love, relationship and life. Everyone in this world are selfish and there is absolutely no wrong in being so, and more so when it comes to special relationships. After all All's fair in love and war. So for heaven sake, please don’t get married to someone whom u don’t love, with whom u feel u can't lead a proper married life. Falling into the trap of marriage with someone whom u think is not ur choice, jus for the sake of compulsion of ur parents and society. Its crap to fall in love with someone and get married to someone else. Its not only that you are cheating urself, but brutally hurting the other person too. When u are sure u can't share ur love with ur partner, then why get married and why break a family? Be selfish, it’s better to sound bitter to ur parents, friends and family in saying NO rather to jus nod ur head and then break a relationship and shatter a family. Preferably stay single than to marry and still maintain ur celibacy. (Sorry if that was too rude!)

Now regarding the movie,yes, what Dev and Maya did was wrong, breach of sincerity towards their relationship & family.. but it needs some broad mindedness to accept it. (Movies are inspired by real life. Everyone of us know, this kind of events does exist in real day to day life, but our cowardness and ego prevents us from accepting it. It’s a fear of losing our respect in appreciating this film). If u want something, you need to sacrifice another. I appreciate the move made by both Rishi and Rhea. Once the fidelity is lost, there is no point in staying together and for relationship; jus marriage can’t bring that bond. Just three knots cannot bring the feel of life, all they need is the chemistry. Amitabh rocks in his last scene. KANK : Five stunning actors. Three and a half hour movie. One picture perfect director and ofcourse a simple message: Marry only if you're in love!

Confused.. !?!?!?!

Our sorrows and troubles sometimes make us very strong and sometimes too weak. If we are not an atheist, then we resort to the path of Prayers and choose to leave our burden at the feet of the Almighty. But, when our patience is tested... how do we react? It is not that once we seek God and trust him, he would take care of our sorrows and troubles, but the period we believe in God and think he would give us a way, enough time would have passed for us to get used to our troubles and another bigger problem would have come up that we tend to believe that God has solved our troubles. God or his name is just a distraction for us from our problems. There is some power which exists in this world, but it is definitely not God, and that power can do absolutely nothing. It is only our attitude.

Ha! I’m slightly confused now... What is the use of spilling milk over the dead body of a kid, when they are not ready to feed the baby crying out of hunger?!? Same is grace of God (if at all He exists). He doesn’t come to our rescue when we really need him, but after we face the insults and enough pain, what is the use of him doing something?

காஸேதான் கடவுலா?

என்ன கொடுமை இது? ஓரு சுகன்திரதினதன்னிகி அலுவலகதுல வன்து வேலை செய்யனும்க்ர தலைஎழுத்து! இது தான் இன்த மாத்ரி வெளிநாடு நிருவனத்துல வேலை செய்யரதோட
கொடுமைகள். நாலு காஸு அதிகமா கொடுகாரன்னு ஆசை பட்டு சென்தா, ஊரே சன்தோஸமா குடும்பத்தோட உட்கார்ந்து விட்டுல எதாவது ஒரு விஷேஷமொ பண்டிகையொ கொண்டாடினா நம்ப மட்டும் இருக்கமாடோம். இதுல என்ன ரொம்ப மனசு வருத்த பட்ர ஒரு விஷயம்னா, நம்ப இந்தியாவ விட கிழ்பட்ட ஆஃப்ரிகா போல நாடுகளொட சுகந்திர தினதல்ல நம்ப கொண்டாடர மாதிரி விடுமுரை. எவனொ வேலைகாரணோட பண்டிகைகள் திருவிழாக்கல் இதுக்குஎல்லாம் நமக்கு விடுமுரை ஆனால் நம்ப நாட்டு பண்டிகைகளுக்கு கிடையாது.கேட்டா, இதுக்கெலாம் ஒத்துகிட்டு தானே வேலை செய்ய வந்தீங்க அப்படிங்ர ஒரு கேள்வி.

அதே சமயத்துல மனசுல ஒரு குழப்பம். ஓரு அளவுக்கு சுமாரான சம்பளத்துக்கு வேலை பாக்குர நம்பலே இந்த அளவுக்கு வெளிநாட்டு கொடுமைகளை பத்தி புலம்பும்பொது, நம்ப நாட்டுல இருகர திரை அரங்குகள், உணவகங்கள் இதுல பணி புரிபவர்களுக்கு எப்படி இருக்கும்? நம்ப மட்டும் பொலம்பரமாதிரி அவர்களும் நினைசுட்டாங்கனா? அப்போ நான் புலம்புவது தப்பா?
ப்.ஸ் இன்த ப்லொக ஆங்கிலத்துல எழுதவேண்டாம்னு ஒரு என்னம். என்ன இருந்தாலும் நம்ப தாய் மொழில எழுதினாதான் என்னோட கோவம் எல்லாம் அடங்கும்.

Happy 59th Independence Day!

Proud and lucky to be an Indian. Will definitely do whatever i can to make my country a #1 nation.

Jai Hind!

How sensible you are??

It’s highly irritating when you wait for the lift (elevator) and that too in the 12th floor of a 13 storey building, and the person next to you, with a wide grin on his face, makes the upward selection! How stupid!! and when the lift operator stops and asks "Mela poganuma saar!?!?" With a great sense of humor says – hehe adukulyuma? Na ground floor dhan poganum. The lift-man not knowing how to react says, venumna mela poitu kezha pogalam saar.. summa vangasaar poitu pogalam! Huh! Are the others waiting for the lift so stupid??
This happens not only btwn the 12th and the 13th floor.. but also with the basement and the ground floor! The worst is when a person walking in the 8th floor corridor makes the call for the lift, jus for fun and when the lifts stops and opens.. laughs aloud as if he has made some big achievements. Fool!!

The next most senseless thing is to keep honking when u for sure know the vehicle standing before u cannot move any further. How idiotic to honk when the Sigal is RED or in Stop sign? Buggers!!!